Good-bye Means Not Farewell

John Imrie’s poem reveals the true and touching meaning of goodbye.

Good-bye! good-bye!  what kindly words..... Their meaning true — God-be-with-you!

Updated February 25, 2026, by Catherine Pulsifer.

When we say good bye, we often mean it as a simple habit. John Imrie reminds us that the word carries a deeper meaning. Long ago, good bye was linked to a blessing, as if we were saying, God be with you. That thought can change the tone of a parting. It turns a quick phrase into a kind wish, and it helps us leave people with warmth instead of rush. This poem encourages us to speak with care, because our words can comfort someone more than we realize.

Good-bye Means Not Farewell

Poet: John Imrie

"Good-bye! good-bye! " what kindly words,
As they fall on the parting ear,
Like the singing of summer birds,
With their wonderful power to cheer;
Their meaning true —
"God-be-with-you!"
With kiss and sigh —
"Good-bye! good-bye!"

"Good-bye! good-bye! " means not "Farewell!"
But a wish for our Father's care!
How sweet when hearts their fullness tell
In the words of that loving prayer;
"Good-bye! good-bye!"
May God be nigh;
The meaning true —
"God-be-with-you!"

These words are sometimes idly said,
Like passing sunbeams on the wall,
And on the heart fall cold and dead,
'Tis then no fervent prayer at all.
But plain — ''Good-bye!" —
A formal cry,
No kiss nor sigh.
Ah, friends! — why? why?

Remember, when you say — " Good-bye!'
Life is uncertain, short, and fleet;
Then, let the love-light in your eye
Show friendship's bond is strong and sweet
Thus, hand-in-hand,
Friends understand
The meaning true —
"God-be-with-you!"

Key Messages from the poem:

  • "Good-bye" is more than a farewell—it’s a prayer.
    Each time we say “good-bye,” we’re really saying, “God be with you.” It’s a gentle reminder that love and care continue even as we part.
  • Speak with meaning, not habit.
    Words matter. When we say “good-bye” without heart, we miss the chance to offer comfort. Let every parting be sincere, filled with love and hope.
  • Life is short—cherish each moment.
    A parting could be the last, so let your good-byes reflect kindness, warmth, and connection. Let your love shine through even in the simplest words.

Conclusion

As you reflect on John Imrie’s touching poem, may it change the way you view the simple word "good-bye."

In our busy world, we often say it without thinking—like a quick “see you later.” But centuries ago, it held a deeper, more tender meaning: “God be with you.” What a beautiful reminder that even in parting, we can bless one another. So the next time you say good-bye, let it come from the heart, with care, hope, and the quiet prayer that God’s presence stays near those you love.

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Let your good-byes reflect kindness, warmth, and connection